You are a holy human animal!

The tender press of the divine into flesh

is not some faraway fantasy.

It is available to you here and now.

Beneath the static drone of repetitive thinking,

beyond the electric glare of this screen,

is the pulse of your animal body,

the heave of your breath in your bones.

Your fears are clues in a massive scavenger hunt,

and your fantasies are roadmaps to home.

On this journey,

there are a thousand roads,

a million guides,

and a single expert:  you.

by Robyn Lynn

Questions about “The Conscious Sensuality Approach to Sexual Healing and Empowerment”

What will we do in the workshop?

We’ll share openly about our common needs as human beings for closeness, touch, and connection.   We’ll explore, teach,demonstrate, and practice several ways for our needs for connection to be met on emotional, intellectual, and physical levels.  We expose some of the unconscious forces that keep us from getting the love, touch, and connection we need and move through them together, cooperatively.  We’ll talk, listen, be in small groups, dance, breathe, and give and receive touch–always at your own choice and discretion with full consent.

Will I be put on the spot?  

Nope.  We know that you will emerge in your own unique way in your own timing when you are ready.  We won’t call you out or put you on the spot unless you expressly tell Robyn or Robert that you’d like to be challenged in this way.

Who will be there? 

That’s still shaping up.  Usually it’s a a small group of women, men, a few couples, mostly singles who have a sincere and open-hearted desire to grow in their own sexual-emotional strength and empowerment.  I screen each participant to ensure we can create a coherent heart field together.

It seems kind of scary to tell the truth about my feelings and my sexuality with strangers.  What will it be like? 

You’re right.  It can be  scary.  And kind of exciting, too.  The environment we create is set up in such a way to affirm your vulnerability and encourage you to open in just the ways that serve you.  You will be welcomed in your vulnerability, and in your choice to share as much or as little as you like.

Is it ok if I’m scared? 

Yep.  If you aren’t at least a little twitterpated, then you might be asleep.  Everyone’s a little nervous when we first get together.  That’s the energy we use to make something beautiful together.

Is it ok if I’m turned on? 

Completely.  Fear and arousal are two expressions of the same energy.  They’re both fully welcomed.

Will there be nudity?

Yes. It’s part of experiencing the normalcy and innocence of who we all are.  You get to choose if and how much you choose to be undressed.

Will there be physical contact?

Yes.  We’ll explore giving and receiving loving attention through movement, dance, and massage.

Will there be sexual contact? 

Yes, our sexual needs are also welcome.  Like everything we do, sexual contact is always 100% optional and consensual.  We’ll guide you to to give and receive verbal consent for exactly what you want and what you don’t want to give and receive.  You’ll be guided each step along the way.

What if I find the other people creepy, don’t feel attracted, or don’t feel safe?

Well, then I suggest that you don’t open up until you feel genuinely moved to do so.  The truth is, something beautiful happens each and every time we do this work.  For most people, a certain kind of mask falls off revealing an immense beauty in themselves and in those around them.  It’s a bit of a miracle.  Your heart will tell you what to do and I strongly guide you to listen to it.

Is this some kind of group sex thing?

Physically, no.  Energetically, yes.  We’ll be exploring aspects of sensuality and sexuality that may be new to most people–sober, meditative, one-way, healing touch.  Contact will be with hands only and gloves will be provided to honor everyone’s health.  But there will be no intercourse or oral sex of any kind in our events.  What does happen is that a potent energy generally arises and coalesces in the room as we explore together, and this energy fuels each participant’s awakening and empowerment, bringing him or her to the next natural step in their evolution.

Common Workshop Logistics Questions

Where is the workshop held? 

In a large, private historic home in Tacoma, WA.

When is it? 

Saturday & Sunday September 10 & 11, 2011

11-8 both days

What about lunch?

We’ll have a leisurely break for lunch.  There’s a kitchen available onsite plus restaurants nearby.  You need to bring your own food or go out to eat.

What about lodging? 

There will be room for some of the participants to stay overnight on Saturday at the workshop site.  Let Robyn know right away if this is your preference.  Other participants will commute and stay at home.

What if I’m flying in from another city? 

We’ll do everything we can to make it smooth for you and will do our best to arrange for transport to and from the airport and possibly lodging.  Inquire with Robyn to make arrangements.

What should I bring with me? 

• a closed container water bottle
• a small bottle or jar of your favorite massage oil (we recommend coconut oil for its versatility, you can get it with the other cooking oils at most grocery stores)
• one flat sheet
• a pillow or backjack to sit on
• (optional) journal & pen

What should I wear?

Wear clothes you can move in–stretchy, comfy things that breathe are best.  Layers are great.  A sarong or quick cover-up can be useful.

How much does it cost? 

$300 per person, $250 if registered by Aug. 20th.  Incentives for discounts are available–inquire with Robyn.

How do I pay?

Send payment via Paypal to robyn@thepresentsense.com or use the buttons on the Event page.

I have some more questions.  Who should I talk to? 

Contact Robyn.

206.579.2603

robyn@thepresentsense.com

I’m offering Sex & Intimacy Coaching for women, men, and couples on a short visit to my FAVORITE city this June 27, 28th, and 29th and I’m excited to work with curious people motivated to create beautiful change!

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Contact me: robyn@thepresentsense.com 206.579.2603

It’s 10am on a sleepy Saturday morning and my lover and I are lounging in bed together, caressing one another’s skin and mumbling the faint recollections from last night’s dreams.  I drag the back of my hand up the inside of his thigh and brush it against his groin and then over his belly.  He sighs with pleasure.  Then I turn my hand over and do the same move again, this time with the palm of my hand rather than the back.  His body shudders a little with delight.  Then, he inhales quickly and sits up.  A light bulb just went on.

“Why are hands and mouths and nipples more policed than elbows and backs?”

“What do you mean?” I ask.

“Well, you just brushed me with the back of your hand and it felt good.  Then you touched me with the front of your hand and it felt great.”

“Okay…”

“So, say I were to accidentally brush up against a woman’s breasts with my back as I passed by her.  This would be no big deal.  Or say the back of my hand grazed her body as we passed, incidental contact.  She probably wouldn’t think much of it, nor would anyone else.  But if the front of my hand touched her body, especially her breasts or her butt, I’d be considered a total creep.  Why is that?”

I laughed.  It may seem like an obvious question. And there are all kinds of reasons, of course….it could be seen as invasion of her personal space, an act that is trying to take rather from her rather than give, it could even be seen as a perpetration.  It isn’t socially acceptable to make palm-to-breast contact with a stranger……handshakes are ok, but not boobshakes.  We all know this is how things are….but why?

Think about your so-called private parts for a moment.

Pliable Lips.  Wet Tongues.  Erectable Nipples.  Moist, dark, mysterious places, pulsing with electricity and life.

All those nerve endings.  All that chance for bodily communication, one synapse chatting away to another, spilling all the secrets of our seeming separation. Inside this communion, the illusion that I am separate and alone in this huge universe dissolves.

Now, simply, I am.

Yikes.

Why are our so-called “private parts” private? Because they hold within them one of the greatest pathways for human beings to experience union with the interconnectedness with life.  When we are connected–to source and to each other–we are powerful.  And I dare say our power scares us.

I could go on and on about how the organized State and the political power of the Church have tried to keep commoners from their power through instilling sexual shame and fear.  About how, for countless generations, we have been sold the increasingly subtle message that earthly life is either profane or a waiting period until we get to the “real” home (Heaven), that sex should be avoided in favor of an ascension toward God or a divine power who dwells beyond this earthly realm.

Communion is no longer something we experience with our tender, innocent flesh, but as symbolized play-act with wafers and grape juice.  But that anonymous “they”–the Church, the State…..who are they?

If I really pay attention, with clear eye and honest heart, I see that I’m the one duping myself.  I’m the one who holds me back from tapping in to our massive collective power.  I’m the one afraid of connecting all those synapses into a big, networked “WE.”  But as dear Freud used to say, “Fear is a wish.”

I laugh out loud with my face pressed into the pillow.  My lover and I hold each other.  I love this path.

Last February I took a chance on love (what else is there to do?!) and am now living in Fairfax, California–just north of San Francisco.

My heart continues to be connected and woven with Seattle and its beautiful community, and I will be visiting the Seattle area regularly.  If you’d like to be notified of upcoming Seattle visits, please email me robyn@thepresentsense.com.  And those of you in the Bay Area, I’m looking forward to our paths crossing!